生活中常看到这样的情形:一边是上中学的孩子,不知何时起,突然失去了儿时的乖巧顺从,变得桀骜不驯,甚至叛逆,处处和父母对着干。一边是焦虑不堪的母亲,放弃休息和娱乐,乃至放弃事业,一切围着孩子转,情绪变成了孩子学习成绩的晴雨表。叛逆的孩子在愤怒:我的压力够大了,不要再唠 In life, I often see such a situation: one is a middle school child, I do not know when, suddenly lost her childhood obedience, become unruly, and even rebellious, everywhere and parents to do. Side of the anxiety of the mother, to give up rest and entertainment, and even give up their business, all around the child, emotions into a barometer of child learning results. Rebellious child angry: my pressure is big enough, do not chatter