做人有做人的分寸,做人的分寸把握得当,就显得老练、成熟、有修养,否则就显得浅薄和稚嫩。把握做人的分寸自然颇有讲究,我以为,处理好做人的“大”与“小”的关系,似在“分寸”之列。一“量小非君子,无度不丈夫”,“将军额头能走马,宰相肚里可撑船”,讲的都是人要大度,不要小肚 Man has a man’s sense of propriety, man’s sense of propriety grasp, it seems sophisticated, mature, self-cultivation, otherwise it appears shallow and immature. It is natural to grasp the sense of being a human being. In my opinion, dealing with the relationship between “big” and “little” of human beings seems to be in the ranks of “propriety.” A “small amount of non-gentleman, no degree of husband”, “the general forehead can take the horse, the prime minister can hold a boat”, are all about the generous, not tripe