儿子20多岁了,可在我眼里,总还是个孩子,喜欢自作主张,认定了的事谁也拦不住,经不起挫折,情绪容易波动,所以20多年来,我一直为他牵肠挂肚,揪心撩肺。记得那一年小学毕业考完“升中”试,儿子对我说:“妈妈,我想去做署期工。”看着那张稚气的脸,一个老板虐待童工的镜头立刻在我脑海浮现,口中却说,社会很复杂,你还小,很容易学坏的。儿子一副深思熟虑的模样:“我自己当老板,不会学坏的。”我大吃一惊:“小小年纪,你当什么老板?”儿子理直气壮地:“我摆摊修理单车,不就是老板吗?”“……”我一时语塞,怕言重了挫伤儿子的自尊和自信,后来想了很多理由,否定了儿子的要求。时间一晃就是10年,儿子即将大学毕业,很多同学都为前途奔忙。我问儿子要不要我出面,儿子说不要。结果他与几个同学合伙开办了一家电脑公司,儿子被推选为总经理,主管财务和技术,忙得不可开交。 My son is over 20 years old, but in my eyes, I am always a child, I like to make my own proposal, I can not stand the recognized thing, can not withstand the setbacks and the emotions are easy to fluctuate. So for more than 20 years, I have been worried about him , Worried pulling the lungs. I remember when I graduated from primary school that year, and ascended the throne, my son said to me: “Mom, I want to be a departmental worker.” Looking at the childlike face, a photo of a boss abusing child labor immediately Appears in my mind, the mouth said that the community is very complex, you are still young, it is easy to learn bad. My son a thoughtful appearance: “I am a boss, will not learn bad. ” I was shocked: “young age, what kind of boss you?” “Son confidently: ” I set up stall repair bike, Is not the boss? “” ...... "I am a moratorium, afraid of serious frustration son self-esteem and self-confidence, and later for a lot of reasons, denied the son’s request. Time flicker is 10 years, my son is about to graduate from college, many students are bustling for the future. I asked my son if he wanted me to come forward. My son said no. As a result, he co-founded a computer company with several of his classmates, and his son was promoted to the position of General Manager in charge of finance and technology, working too hard.