55、不要唱反调 唱反调者,只能赢得自己累、他人恨。聪明人应该设法抑制此举。事事抱有异议者,固然富于创见,然而固执己见者几乎都是傻瓜。这些人将亲切的谈话演变成为一场舌战,较之于毫无瓜葛之人,他们对自己的朋友熟人更像个敌手。当佳肴美味可口之时,争论之硬骨头委实难啃,反驳常常使人败兴。他们是冷酷而讨厌的傻瓜。 56、要把握事务的要点 55, do not sing anti-tune anti-tune who can only win their own tired, others hate. Wise people should try to curb this move. Although dissenters of all things, while full of creative ideas, but almost all stubborn people are fools. These people have transformed cordial conversation into a war of words, and they are more of a rival to acquaintances of their acquaintances than those who have no connection. When the delicacy is delicious, it is hard to bite the hard bones of the argument, and the refutation often discourages people. They are cold and annoying fools. 56, to grasp the main points of the transaction