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人们常说世界上最伟大的爱是父母爱和教育爱,但对父母来说,有两种不可取的、势必遭到失败的爱,这就是溺爱和粗暴的爱。首先谈谈父母爱中的溺爱。父母之爱是一种无私的,高尚的情感。他们把一切爱和希望都倾注在孩子身上。可惜的是有些父母爱得不当,爱得过分。他们常常为自己的孩子每一言行击掌欢呼,笑逐颜开,但却从不考虑这是什么言行,会得到什么结果。常见有的父母在爷爷奶奶在场的情况下问孩子:“这么多好吃的东西给谁吃?”孩子答道:“给我吃。”对此有的父母并不介意,甚至还认为孩子“聪明”。这样的父母培养出来的孩子不会懂得在人与人的共同生活中有“可以”、
People often say that the greatest love in the world is parental love and education, but for parents, there are two undesirable and inevitable failures of love. This is spoiled and rude love. First of all talk about the love of parents spoiled. Parents love is a selfless, noble emotion. They devote all their love and hope to their children. It is a pity that some parents love too much, love too much. They often clap their hands and cheer for each of their children, but they never think about what they say and what kind of result they will get. Common parents in the presence of grandparents asked the children: “So many delicious things for whom to eat?” The child replied: “Give me to eat.” Some parents do not mind, and even think the child “ clever”. Children raised by such parents do not understand that there is “yes” in the common life of people,