秘密1选定生活方式马克记得50年前的一段经历。当时,他和奶奶到了一片海滩。他迫不及待地扑进大海,奶奶则一点一点地向水中迈进。她撩起水,先撩向胳臂,又撩向身体的其他部位。奶奶在适应水温的变化。故事包含了许多内容。你可以把它理解为给自己的未来增加保险系数。下水之前,你先要清楚自己会遇到什么,以便在事情来临时胸有成竹,而且有逃脱的方法。做出改变生活的积极决定之前,你需要理清事情的轻重缓急、权衡选择的利弊。秘密2保证家庭第一1984年,参议员保罗·桑切斯被诊断出患了淋巴癌。为了和家人在一起的时间更长一些,他放弃了名望甚高的工作。正像一位睿智的朋友所说,“没有人希望临终前在办公室度过更多的时光”。总之,无论是传统家庭还是现代家庭,家庭的意义都跳不开同样的意义:一家人相聚相守,让生命繁衍下去。 Secrets 1 Selected Lifestyle Mark remembers a story 50 years ago. At that time, he and grandma reached a beach. He could not wait to flutter into the sea, grandma little by little into the water. She lifted the water, first to the arm, but also to the rest of the body. Grandma is adapting to the change of water temperature. The story contains a lot of content. You can think of it as adding an insurance factor to your future. Before launching, you must first understand what you will encounter in order to get ready when things come, but also to escape. Before making a positive decision to change your life, you need to sort things out and weigh the pros and cons of your choices. Secret 2 to ensure family first In 1984, Senator Paul Sanchez was diagnosed with lymphoma. In order to spend more time with his family, he gave up the work of great reputation. As one wise friend put it, “Nobody wants to spend more time in the office before his death”. In short, no matter whether it is a traditional family or a modern family, the meaning of family can not jump to the same meaning: family members spend time together to let their life continue.