近年,随着生活水平的提高,不少家庭在孩子过生日时,要么在饭店大摆宴席,要么在家举行生日派对,小朋友之间还要互赠礼物。他们认为,组织生日活动是对孩子组织能力和交际能力的一种锻炼,精心制作、挑选礼物也有助于提高孩子们的动手能力。但也有人说,这样过生日既浪费金钱,又让孩子们从小就沾染请客送礼的陋习; In recent years, with the improvement of living standards, many families celebrate their children’s birthday either at the restaurant or at a birthday party at home, with gifts exchanged between children. They think organizing birthday activities is an exercise in children’s organizational skills and communicative competence, and elaborate selection of gifts also helps to improve children’s practical ability. However, some people say that such birthday is not only a waste of money, but also allow children to be infected with gifts of bad habits;