生活中,常听一些年轻的父母说自己的小孩很淘气、玩心重,不愿学习,甚至还会对父母撒谎等,因而认为孩子不会有什么很大的出息。其实,持这种看法是比较片面的。鲁迅先生曾说过:“中国一般的趋势,却只在向驯良之类——‘静’的一方发展,低眉顺眼、唯唯诺诺,才算一个好孩子。活泼、健康、顽强、挺胸仰面……凡属‘动’的,那就未免有人摇头 In my life, I often hear some young parents say that their children are very naughty, heavyheaded, unwilling to learn, and even lie to their parents. Therefore, they think that the children will not be able to make any significant gains. In fact, holding this view is more one-sided. Mr. Lu Xun once said: ”The general tendency in China is to develop toward one who is tame and the like - ’quiet’, with a lowbrow and pleasant eyesight, a good boy. Lively, healthy, tenacious, ... Whenever it is “moving”, someone shook his head