家长如今遭遇的矛盾在于:不让孩子输在起跑线上的美好愿望以及如何摆脱每天的痛苦陪读这一现实需求之间的矛盾。对许多家长而言,这是一件非常急切的事情。孩子的转变不可能在朝夕之间,却是每个朝夕努力与坚持的结果。学习问题一直困扰着家长和孩子,无法快速地根治,比如作业拖沓问题、上课不认真问题、做题目粗心老是做错等这些常见的“小问题”。如何去处理这些问题,家长要明确一个不可回避的事实,学生的学习不是一部激情澎湃的大电影,而是一部平淡 The paradox that parents face nowadays is the contradiction between the good wishes of not letting children fall on the starting line and how to get rid of the daily painful need to accompany them. For many parents, this is a very urgent matter. Children’s transformation can not be between the day and night, but it is the result of every effort and perseverance. Learning problems have been plagued by parents and children, can not be quickly eradicated, such as the problem of procrastination, not serious problems in class, doing the wrong carelessly and often these common “little problem ”. How to deal with these problems, parents should make it clear that an unavoidable fact that students learn is not a passionate big movie, but a plain