很多人认为,培养孩子的自我管理能力,主要职责归家长,因为孩子在学校的主要任务是上课学知识,课外活动时间很少,活动涉及的能力面也寥寥——老师培养学生自我管理能力的实践园地太窄小了。但我不赞成这一观点。在与家长见面时,常常听到这样一句话:在家里他(她)也是听您的不听我的。这说明,在孩子们的心目中,老师的“权威性”要比 Many people think that to develop children’s self-management skills, the main responsibility to parents, because children’s primary task in school is to learn knowledge, extracurricular activities, time activities are also involved in a very small capacity - the teacher training students self-management skills Practice is too narrow. But I do not agree with this view. In meeting with parents, I often hear the sentence: at home, he (she) is also listening to you do not listen to me. This shows that in the minds of children, the teacher’s “authority” than