社会学家指出,生活中充满了矛盾和斗争,每个人都可能在某一时刻出现心理危机。新的时代托出新的生活方式。一家两制、两地分居、第二职业、失业威胁、期望高值、分配不公、婚外恋爱、情人现象,行为方式有的超前,有的囿于传统,种种生活方式造成价值取向的冲撞,种种矛盾纠葛冲击婚恋家庭伦理道德……人们的心理承受能力正在经受严峻的考验。 Sociologists point out that life is full of contradictions and struggles, and everyone may experience a psychological crisis at some point. New era care about new ways of life. A family of two, the separation of the two places, the second occupation, the threat of unemployment, high expectations, unfair distribution, extramarital love, lover phenomenon, some of the behavior of the way ahead, some of the traditional, all kinds of life-style collision caused by the value orientation Conflict conflicts impact marriage family ethics ... ... people’s mental capacity is being subjected to harsh tests.