闲情从小就被灌输“好孩子不哭”的理论,在这种思想指导下,闲情一直认为:“哭”是必须改正的错误行为。当闲情拥有一个爱在妈妈面前哭泣的宝贝儿子时,就怀疑自己在教育上出了什么问题。为此,闲情颇为苦恼。有一天,有个妈妈说看过一本名叫《倾听孩子》的书,书上介绍说:“能得到父母倾听的孩子会常常哭泣和发脾气,这些都属于消除紧张与困惑情绪的自然过程。”闲情对于这个说法颇为迷惑,于是就在网上向各位妈妈请教。 Feelings of childhood have been inculcated “good boy does not cry,” the theory, under the guidance of this idea, leisure has always been that: “crying” is the wrong behavior must be corrected. When she has a loving baby son who loves to cry in front of her mother, she suspects that she has any problem with her education. To this end, leisure is quite distressed. One day, a mother said she read a book titled “Listen to Children.” According to the book, “Children who can be heard by their parents often cry and lose their temper, all of which are natural processes for eliminating tension and confusion. ”Leisure for this argument rather confused, so online to ask your mom.