《论语》记载:一天,子夏请教孔子什么是孝,孔子只讲了两个字——色难。意思是说,给父母好脸色是最基本的孝道,也是最难做到的。父母对于儿女的诸多不是,一般都不会往心里去,最难接受的,就是儿女给脸色看。有位老太太,中午去儿子房间找报纸,正碰上儿子回来。儿子刚谈砸了一笔生意,心情不太好,见母亲在他房间里,便生硬地说: “The Analects” records: One day, Zizia see Confucius what is filial piety, Confucius only spoke two words - Color difficult. This means that it is the most basic form of filial piety to parents and the hardest thing to do. Parents are not children of many, generally do not go to the heart, the hardest to accept is that children look to the complexion. An old lady went to his son’s room at noon to find a newspaper, is coming across his son. Son just smashed a deal, the mood is not very good, see his mother in his room, they bluntly said: