“优点不说跑不了,缺点不说不得了。”这是许多家长的“座右铭”。所以,有不少家长以为,斥责和批评孩子就是“教育”。但是,许多事实说明,斥责、批评常常只是伤害了孩子的自尊心,并无好的教育效果,还会导致亲子关系出现严重冲突。初一年级的小田由父母陪 “Advantages not to say can not run, shortcomings not to say.” This is the motto of many parents. Therefore, many parents think that reprimanding and criticizing children is “education.” However, many facts show that reprimands and criticisms often only hurt their children’s self-esteem, and they have no good educational effect and can lead to serious conflicts between their parents and children. Oda first grade by his parents