我们在接待家长咨询的时候，常常遇到这类情况。家长忧心忡忡向我们叙述她的孩子如何如何问题大，真把她急死了，气死了，说得山雨欲来风满楼的样子。可是我们听了半天，也没听出有多大问题来，有时候我们甚至会觉得她没有必要来咨询。他们似乎总在用放大镜看孩子的缺点，而且? We often encounter such situations when we receive counseling from parents. Parents worried about how to describe her child how big problems, really put an urgency on her death, mad, put it all the way to the wind towering look. However, we listened for a long time and did not hear any major problems. Sometimes we even think that she has no need to consult. They always seem to use the loupe to see the child’s shortcomings, and?