“刚柔并举”是中国古代传统治心思想之精华,蕴涵的人生智慧,充满了伟大的辨证法思想。校长软实力,就是校长教育价值观所产生的吸引力和校长的管理能力所形成的感召力。对学生而言,校长的软实力体现在对学生的严格要求和细心呵护;对教师而言,体现在对教师的尊重、理解和宽容;对家长而言,则体现在与家长合作过程中的“沟通理解”与“坚守引导”。提升校长软实力,在工作中做到“刚 ”Combining rigidness and softness “ is the essence of ancient Chinese traditional political thought, implies the wisdom of life, full of great dialectical thinking. The soft power of principals is the charisma created by the attractiveness of principals’ educational values ​​and the management ability of the principal. For students, the principal’s soft power is reflected in the strict requirements and careful care of students; for teachers, reflected in the respect of teachers, understanding and tolerance; for parents, it is reflected in the process of cooperation with parents ”Communication understanding “ and ”stick to guidance “. Enhance the soft power of principals, in the work to do ”just