当今的孩子,父母、祖父母对之可谓众星捧月,方方面面照顾得无微不至,惟恐孩子吃苦。然而,父母对孩子爱的情感往往是呈现单向输出,而不是双向的交流,即在把爱倾注给孩子的同时,并没有注意去培养孩子也去爱别人,爱与被爱问的交流严重失衡。久而久之,会使孩子认为别人爱他是天经地义的,而他却不知去关怀和爱自己的父母、亲人与同伴,不会体谅他人的痛苦与快乐。 Today’s children, parents, grandparents can be described as stars on the moon, take care of every possible way, fear of child hardship. However, the emotion of parents to children’s love tends to be one-way output instead of two-way communication, that is, while devoting love to children, they do not pay attention to cultivating children and love others, and the exchange between love and being loved is seriously unbalanced . Over time, children will think that others love him is perfectly justified, but he did not know to care and love their parents, loved ones and companions, will not be considerate of the pain and happiness of others.