痛苦的森:去年到今年,我哥在不少于30家单位求职,但没有一家愿意用他。是不是他这一辈子都找不到工作了?他很烦很害怕。姐姐你能帮他吗?首先,要学会接受现实,承认某些事情已经存在的糟糕结果,冷静地查找原因。然后,找到解决问题的有效办法,让认知逐步脱离过去所带来的困扰。如果是“我”的原因,比如说“我” Painful Sen: Last year to this year, my brother in no less than 30 units job seekers, but no one is willing to use him. Is not that his life can not find a job? He is very annoying and scared. Sister, can you help him? First of all, we must learn to accept the reality, admit that something already exists bad results, calmly find the reason. Then, find effective ways to solve the problem and gradually remove the distractions from the past. If it is “I ” reasons, such as “I ”