在中学,凡是做过高中班主任的教师都知道,正确处理男女生间的关系,是件很费脑筋的事情。一方面,有少数学生早恋;另一方面一部分男女生之间又“老死不相往来”。班主任管得太松,怕早恋成风,不利于学生的健康成长,家长,社会更会抱怨;管得太紧,又会造成“男女大防”,班上死水一潭,学生又会说班主任“思想僵化”。如何使男女生既 In secondary schools, all teachers who teach high school class teachers know that dealing with the relationship between boys and girls is a very arduous task. On the one hand, there are a small number of students who fall in love; on the other hand, between male and female students, there is an “old dead relationship”. The class teacher is too loose and afraid of early love is not conducive to the healthy growth of students. Parents and society will complain. Too tight control will lead to “great men and women’s protection.” The students will say class teacher “ The mind is rigid." How to make both boys and girls