当然,我们相信,更多的爸爸们是非常关心自己的孩子的成长的。他们在用自己的行动从许多方面关注和帮助着自己的孩子。但是,随着孩子的长大,爸爸们有时也会迷茫:我想做个好爸爸,但是我该怎么做,才能让孩子听我的?孩子不听话,管也是白搭!对此,知心姐姐告诉我们,孩子们对爸爸好与坏的评价,已经不仅仅是用“打不打屁股”来衡量,而是用“是不是知心”来衡量。现代孩子呼唤知心爸爸。因为,他们需要知心朋友。现代爸爸能否成为知心爸爸,却不是某一日想成就成的,而要看他在伴随孩子成长的这些年里,是否发现了做知心爸爸的“秘密武器”。 Of course, we believe more dads are very concerned about the growth of their children. They are using their actions to look after and help their children in many ways. However, as the children grow up, dads sometimes confused: I want to be a good father, but how can I do to allow children to listen to me? Children are not obedient, the tube is Jupiter! In this regard, intimate sister told We, the children’s evaluation of the good and bad of the father, have been measured not only by “not spanking”, but by “not knowing”. Modern children call for heart dad. Because they need to know their friends. Whether or not a modern father can become a daddy, but not a successful one day, depends on whether he has found “secret weapon” to be his father during these years of growing up with his children.