很多时候,家长对孩子的缺点如数家珍,指指点点,对明显的优点却视而不见。这,便是中国家长的通病。在教育术语中,西方有“大拇指文化”：爱挑你的优点,竖大拇指表扬你：东方则有“食指文化”：专挑毛病,伸出食指来指责点戳。于是乎,有专家学者从东西方不同的“指头文化”中悟出了真谛—— In many cases, the parents’ innumerable shortcomings of their children are pointed at their fingers, turning a blind eye to obvious advantages. This is a common problem for Chinese parents. In education terms, the West has a “thumb culture”: love to pick you up, thumb up to praise you: the East is “index finger culture”: to find fault, put out the index finger to point out the stamp. Ever since, some experts and scholars have realized the true meaning from the different “finger cultures” in East and West -