无论一胎二胎,一定要想清楚,是否准备好了,开弓没有回头箭。一旦后悔了,受罪的就是孩子。第一:月子的矛盾我坐过两次月子。第一次在家,全是老人,第二次在月子中心。并不是我多有钱,我只是想省点心。常常有人问我,哪边爹妈对?这个问题最难的地方在于,他们都是出于好心,都是关心孩子关心你。如果说错误,只是因为隔代人对于孩子的照顾,很难都找寻到平衡点,至少在我们家,是这样。所 No matter whether a child has a second child, he must make it clear whether he is ready or not. Once regretted, suffer the child. First: contradictions of the month I sat twice a month. The first time at home, all the elderly, the second in the month center. Not much money, I just want to save. People often ask me, which side parents are right? The hardest part about this problem is that they are out of kindness and are concerned about the children care about you. If we make a mistake, it is hard to find a balance simply because of the care taken by our children, at least in our family. The