毋庸置疑,争吵也是一种人际沟通方式,它同样可以传递信息,促进或妨碍彼此的感情。争吵很容易激起人们的不良情绪,导致非理性状态下的失控。如果争吵经常发生,那么,它给人际关系带来的危害就可能加大。遗憾的是,在生活中,很多人习惯于用争执、吵架这类简单的方式来解决夫妻间的摩擦,一些不经意的言语就成了矛盾的导火索,引发家庭战争。当我们静下心来观察这些家庭内部的争吵,就会发现,其中充斥着许多误解,掩藏着深层次的内心需求。让我们驱散争吵的硝烟,探寻那些被屏蔽掉的心理语言吧。 Needless to say, the quarrel is also a form of interpersonal communication, it can also transmit information to promote or hinder the feelings of each other. Quarrels can easily arouse people’s bad mood, leading to uncontrollable state of uncontrolled. If quarrels happen frequently, then the harm it may have to human relationships may increase. Unfortunately, in life, many people are accustomed to using simple methods such as disputes and quarrels to solve the friction between husband and wife. Some casual words become the contradictory fuse that triggers the family war. When we stop to observe the internal quarrels in these families, we find that there are many misunderstandings hidden in them, hiding deep inner needs. Let’s disperse the quarrels and search for the psychological language that is being shielded.