多一些包容,少一些挑剔来自两个不同成长背景的家庭,肯定有着诸多不同的生活习惯和为人处世风格。而每个人有着各自独立的人格,所以既不能服从于婆婆,也不能要求婆婆服从于我们。更何况,婆婆的年龄大了,要想改变过去的性格习惯,比起我们,要艰难得多。想想自己以后也成为了婆婆,是否也希望自己的媳妇 More inclusive, less picky families from two different growth backgrounds, certainly have a lot of different habits and style of life. And each has its own independent personality, so neither can obey her mother-in-law, nor can she obey us. What’s more, mother-in-law’s age is so much older than me. Think of myself later has become a mother-in-law, whether they want their own daughter-in-law