爱,是组成一个家庭的基本因素,子女是父母爱情树的果实,父母对子女的慈爱是子女生长发育的保证,但是,这慈爱并不等于无限度地给予和满足,有时的不满足反而是更理智的爱。但是现在的父母,特别是出生在三年自然灾害期间生长在“文化大革命”时期的父母们,由于自己没有条件享受生活,没有发展自己的特长,如今生活水平提高了,他们不愿意让自己 Love is the basic factor that makes up a family. The children are the fruits of the parental love tree. The love of the parents to the children is the guarantee of the children’s growth and development. However, this kind of love does not mean to be given and satisfied indefinitely. Sometimes, More sensible love. But now parents, especially those born during the three years of natural disasters who grew up during the Cultural Revolution, did not develop their own expertise because they had no qualifications to enjoy their life. Nowadays, their standard of living has risen. They are reluctant to let themselves