我们都读过《红楼梦》,都记得贾宝玉说:男人是泥做的,女人是水做的。这是贾宝玉对女人的怜香惜玉。但是到了今天,这种看法未必能获得女人的欣赏和感激了。女人闯天下尤其难我记得我的先生陈纳德将军对我说过两句话,我至今记忆犹新。我嫁给他时还很年轻,他比我年长三十多岁,人生经验比我丰富很多。 We all read “Dream of Red Mansions”, all remember Jia Baoyu said: men are made of mud, women are made of water. This is JIA Baoyu for women’s pity Xiang Yu. But today, this view may not be able to get the woman’s appreciation and gratitude. Women break into the world is particularly difficult I remember my husband, General Chennault, said two words to me, I still remember fresh. I was still very young when I married him, he was over thirty years older than me and had a lot more experience in life than I was.