内尔·诺丁斯认为,每个人在人生的各个时期都需要得到人们的理解、接纳、尊重和认同,因此关怀他人和被他人关怀都是人的基本需要。我们要教孩子懂得善待他人,告诉他们:你可以不喜欢一个人的行为方式,但是如果他(她)没有伤害和妨碍到你,请你尊重他们的存在,给他们一个相对自由的空间。 Ner Nodins believes that everyone needs to be understood, accepted, respected and identified by people at all stages of their lives. Therefore, caring for and caring for others is a basic human need. We want to teach our children how to be kind to others and tell them: You can dislike a person's behavior, but if he or she does not hurt and hinder you, please respect their existence and give them a relatively free space.