在中国传统观念中,爷爷奶奶带孙子是天经地义的事。很多时候,老人不仅要带孙子,还要自掏腰包养孙子,遇上不讲理的儿子媳妇,孩子出了什么问题,他们还得承受各种指责和埋怨。站在老人的角度想一想,真是比窦娥还冤!年轻夫妻只生不养,把孩子丢给老人的现象比比皆是。实际上,隔代养育既不利于孩子的人格发展、健康成长, In the traditional Chinese concept, grandparents with grandchildren is a matter of course. In many cases, the elderly not only have to bring their grandson but also have to raise their own grandchildren out of pocket. In case of unreasonable son-in-law, children have any problems and they have to endure various accusations and complaints. From the perspective of the elderly to think about it, is really more than Dou E injustice! Young couple not only live without children, the children thrown to the elderly phenomenon abound. In fact, inter-generational nourishment is not conducive to the child’s personality development, healthy growth,