大部分中国人认为,西方文化强调平等,西方权力的嬗变与中国的情况会有很大不同。事实确实如此吗?与别人交往时,我们是否感到公平和满意,很大程度上取决于我们与对方的相对地位和权力。例如,如果CEO主动为员工开门,员工们往往会十分感激;但如果是公司的看门人为他们开门,员工们则会认为理所当然。反之亦然,如果在谈判中面对一个实力 Most Chinese believe that the emphasis on equality in Western culture and the evolution of power in the West can be very different from the situation in China. Is this indeed true? Whether we feel fair or satisfied when dealing with others depends to a large extent on our relative position and power with each other. For example, employees tend to be grateful if the CEO proactively opens their doors to employees, but employees take it for granted if they are opened by the company’s gatekeepers. Vice versa, if you face a strength in the negotiations