冰雨(化名)是一名高二女生,她说自己原来活泼开朗,朋友很多,近期朋友却突然都离她而去,让她感觉被整个世界抛弃了。她相继谈了六个男朋友,但每个都相处不到两个月就分手了,在伤害别人的同时自己内心也很受伤。现在她很难接纳被现实磨得自私、圆滑的自己,深陷自我迷失的恐惧和焦虑之中。然而追溯她的家庭成长环境,我们发现,她竟然像一株被压在石块瓦砾中的小树苗,哪怕扭曲自己,也用尽全身力量拼命生长。 Ice rain (a pseudonym) is a sophomore girl, she said she was originally lively and cheerful, a lot of friends, but her friends suddenly away from her, leaving her feel abandoned by the entire world. She talked about her six boyfriends in succession, but each broke up in less than two months, hurting others and hurting her heart. It is hard for her now to embrace the selfish, sleek, self-actualized fear of anxiety that loses itself. However, tracing back to her family growth environment, we found that she turned out to be like a seedling being pressed into the rubble of rocks, even trying to distort her own strength and desperately exhausted her strength.