老禅师夜里在寺院里散步,忽见院墙一角有一把椅子,他想这一定是哪个小和尚违规跳墙到外面玩去了,他把椅子挪走,自己却蹲在那里。过了很久,有一个小和尚才翻墙进来,正好踩在老禅师的脊背上。小和尚吓呆了。然而,老禅师并没有严厉地责备他,反而关切地说:“夜深了天气很凉,你要多穿一件衣服啊!”小和尚顿时愧疚得无地自容,此后再也不违规跳墙夜出了。足以可见,宽容的力量要远远大过严厉的责备与惩罚。这提示每一个领导者:任何人都有自尊心,你对他的严厉惩罚,不仅伤他的物质(比如罚款),又伤他的精神(比如自尊 The old monk walked in the monastery at night, and suddenly he saw a chair in the corner of the wall. He thought that it must have been a small monk who jumped outside the wall and went to play outside. He took the chair away and he was there. After a long time, a young monk came over the wall and stepped on the back of the old Master. Little monk was scared. However, the old Zen Master did not sternly criticize him. Instead, he said with concern: “The weather is very cold in the dark, you must wear more clothes!” The little monk suddenly found himself arrogantly, and he did not violate the rules again. Night out. It is enough to show that the power of tolerance is far greater than severe reprimand and punishment. This prompts every leader: Everyone has self-esteem, and your severe punishment of him not only hurts his material (such as fines), but also hurts his spirit (such as self-esteem