一名高二女生小洁把电话打到了我的家里,她很小心地向老师询问她要说的情况是否可以严格保密。当她得到非常肯定的答复之后才轻声地向老师说出了心中的秘密,也是目前影响她学习的最大苦恼。原来,她暗暗地“爱”上了一个男老师,而且深深地陷入了极端矛盾的境地,难以自拔。为了便于交流和相互讨论,使咨询过程更有效,我邀请她到心理咨询室来当面交谈。小洁虽然迟疑了一阵,但还是在老师说明理由之后勇敢地答应前来面谈。 Xiaojian, a sophomore girl, called my phone at her home and she asked the teacher carefully whether her situation was strictly confidential. When she got a very positive reply, she whispered to her the secret of her heart, which was the biggest distress now affecting her study. It turned out that she secretly “love” on a male teacher, and deeply plunged into extreme contradictions, hard to extricate themselves. In order to facilitate the exchange and mutual discussion to make the consultation process more effective, I invited her to the counseling room to meet in person. Although Xiao Jie hesitated for a while, but after the teacher explained the reasons courageously agreed to come to the interview.