我去某个家庭面试,当一个初一小男孩的家教。男孩的父亲友好而亲切,对我那自己也没什么谱的自我介绍(对于一个初一的小男孩我的确是迷茫的,我自知我对男孩的把握远远小于女孩)颇为满意,他后来也在我教课的过程中,鼓励我说:“你一定可以的,你要相信自己。”但男孩的母亲则不然,她对我并未过多客气,话语里夹杂着试探和怀疑。我是在懊恼,无法被眼前的人相信是让人难受的一件事。她也许没有否定我,但我已经从她的眼睛里发现她不接受我(后来我一直害怕 I went to a family interview and became a toddler's tutor. The boy's father was friendly and cordial and was quite satisfied with my own self-introduction (I was confused for a first-year young boy, I know I hold the boy far less than the girl) Also in my teaching, I was encouraged to say: “You must be certain, you must believe in yourself.” But the boy's mother is not, she is not too polite to me, with a mixture of temptation and doubt . I am annoyed that one can not be convinced by the immediate person. She may not have denied me, but I have found in her eyes that she does not accept me (I was always scared