一只鸽子总是不停地换窝。新窝住了不长的时间,它就感到有一种强烈的气味,使它喘不过气来。它把自己的烦恼告诉给一只聪明又富有经验的老鸽子。老鸽子点着头说:“你虽然换了许多窝,其实什么也没有换,那种使你烦恼的气味并不是从窝里发出来的,而恰恰是你自己身上发出来的。”从上面这个简短的寓言故事中我们可以发现,生活中的很多问题,主要原因不是出在别人身上,而是要从自己身上去寻找原因;不是别 A pigeon always keep changing nest. It took a short while before the new home felt an intense scent that kept it breathless. It tells her troubles to a clever and experienced old pigeon. The old pigeon nodded and said: “Although you have changed many nests, you have not changed anything. The smell that annoys you does not come from your own nest, but from yourselves.” From the brief fable above, we can see that many of the problems in life are mainly caused not by others, but by their own reasons, not by others