许多父母在家庭教育中,往往自觉或不自觉地强迫孩子做很多事情,比如强迫孩子上各类辅导班、学习不感兴趣的内容,有时候孩子正兴致勃勃地与同伴玩耍,父母却强迫他去写作业。强迫会伤害孩子的情感,如果偶尔使用并在事后及时给予孩子心理抚慰,可能不会引发太大的问题。但是如果长期经常地使用强迫的方法,就会造成比较严重的后果。强迫会导致两种结果:顺从和反抗。表面顺从的孩子,压抑了自己的 Many parents often consciously or unconsciously force their children to do many things, such as forcing their children to attend various classes, learning what they are not interested in, and sometimes the children are playing with their spirits enthusiastically, but parents force him to go Write homework. Forced to hurt the child’s emotions, if used occasionally and in a timely manner to give the child psychological comfort, may not cause too much of a problem. However, long-term and frequent use of coercion can have more serious consequences. Forced results in two consequences: obedience and resistance. Submissive child, depressed himself