现在独生子女吃独食已司空见惯,不少家长为此而忧虑。如何教育孩子心里有他人,成了当今教育界人士普遍研究的问题。日常生活中的锁事,都应是教育孩子的内容,细细体味蕴意还很深,但往往被人忽略。记得有一件事虽隔十几年,却仍然深深地印在我的脑子里。十几年前的一天,我拎着一些苹果看望一个病休在家的同事——张老师。我们聊了一会儿,张老师4岁的儿子小刚从里屋出来,我顺手拿起一个苹果洗干净递给孩子。孩子正要张开小嘴咬苹果,只见张老师说:“小刚,让妈妈咬一口。”我不解地说:“张老师你要吃,我给你洗,干嘛和孩子争着吃。”不由分说,张老师把小刚拉过来,照着苹果使劲地咬了一大口。我呆 Now the only child to eat alone has become commonplace, many parents worry about this. How to educate children to have others in their hearts has become a common issue for educators today. Locks in daily life, should be the content of educating children, carefully understand the meaning is still deep, but often overlooked. I remember one thing after more than a decade, but still deeply imprinted in my mind. A dozen years ago, I was carrying some apples to visit a sick colleague who was sick - Zhang. We talked for a while, Xiao 4-year-old son, Zhang came out from the back room, I picked up an apple to wash and handed it to the child. The child is about to open his mouth to bite the apple, I saw Zhang said: “Xiao Gang, let my mother bite.” I puzzled and said: “Teacher Zhang you want to eat, I wash for you, why compete with the children Eat. ”Invariably, Zhang pulled Xiao Gang, according to Apple hard to bite a big mouth. I stay