一日,朋友谈起晚饭时的场景。饭桌上他和妻子正谈论着近几天工作上的不愉快和生活中的烦心事,话语间充满了牢骚和抱怨。一旁六岁的女儿突然放下筷子,一脸严肃地说:“你们能不能不说这些,说一些美好的事情?”童言无忌,很有道理。一则,告诉我们谈话时要顾及他人的感受,这是一种公共道德;二则,谈话中掺杂的那些个人情绪,往往表达着交流双方的处世态度,这种态度无意中会对孩子产生影响。昨天,和语文老师在办公室里谈起 One day, a friend talks about the scene at dinner. At the dinner table, he and his wife are talking about the unpleasant work and the annoyance in their lives in recent days. The discourse is full of complaints and complaints. The six-year-old daughter suddenly put down her chopsticks and said with a solemn expression: “Can you not say these things and say some good things?” The child said loudly and makes sense. One, telling us that we should pay attention to the feelings of others when talking, this is a kind of public morality; Second, those personal emotions that are involved in the conversation often express the attitudes of both parties to the communication, which inadvertently causes children to influences. Yesterday, speaking with a Chinese teacher in the office