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Q我有两个女儿,老大5岁,善良老实。老二2岁多,聪明伶俐。因为老二年龄小,长得好看,性格又比较外向,所以经常会被亲朋好友夸赞,次数多了,发现老大受到了影响,比如回避跟妹妹一起出去,甚至冲妹妹发脾气。如何保护好老大的自信?如何保护孩子的自信?其实不必特别做什么,就是我们平时对孩子该做的那些正确的教养方式:比如多跟孩子正面沟通,多鼓励孩子主动做事,多给孩子自主权、认同她的情绪和感受,多发展孩子的优势长项,多带孩子户外运动、自
Q I have two daughters, 5 years old, kind and honest. Second child 2 years old, clever and clever. Because the second child is young, looks good, more outgoing personality, it is often praised friends and family, the number of times more and found boss have been affected, such as avoiding with my sister out together, and even punching sister offended. How to protect the boss’s confidence? How to protect the child’s self-confidence? In fact, do not have to do anything, that is, we usually do to those children the correct parenting: such as positive communication with children, encourage children to take the initiative to do more to give children more autonomy Right, agree with her emotions and feelings, multi-development of children’s strengths, long term, with children’s outdoor sports, since