女孩儿篇“女生要有个女生的样儿。”一般来说,3岁左右的孩子即可识别自己的性别,并自然而然地遵从内在的性别角色要求,表现出行为上的性别差异。经常被父母从性别上加以否定,孩子会感到困惑,并因自己没能符合家长的期待而难过。“怎么又把自己弄得脏兮兮的?”别因为怕孩子弄脏就限制她玩沙子、挖土、踩泥巴,没人规定女孩儿就一定得优雅、文静。“看到叔叔阿姨要问好,怎么这么没礼貌!”事 Girls “Girls want to have a girl.” “In general, children about 3 years of age recognize their own gender and naturally follow the inherent gender roles required to demonstrate behavioral gender differences. Often denied by their parents sexually, children will feel confused and sad because they did not meet the expectations of parents. ”Do not get dirty again? “ Do not be afraid of children dirty restricted her to play sand, digging dirt, mud, no one girl must have elegant, quiet. ”Aunt uncle to say hello, how so rude! " Thing