一、共话“代沟”中国有一句流传甚广的俗话:“好汉不提当年勇”。但是每一个人到暮年的时候,都会对孩子大谈自己当年“过五关、斩六将”的英雄业绩,并于希冀孩子尊敬自己的同时,还在孩子身上寄托着所谓未竟的理想。更为有意思的是,几乎是到了父子、父女一见面就谈的地步。结果,孩子开始还忍着脾气、耐着性子听,久而久之,孩子产生了逆反心理,一听就皱眉 First, the total words “generation gap” There is a widely circulated Chinese saying goes: “The hero does not mention the year Yong.” However, when they are old age, everyone will talk to their children about the achievements of her hero who “overstepped their customs and cut the slightest will,” and hope that their children will honor their own so-called unaccomplished ideals. More interesting is that almost to the father and son, father and daughter meet to talk about the point. As a result, the child began to endure temper, patient resistance to listen to, over time, the child had a reverse psychology, a frown