吴顺喜(化名),男,六岁,入学没几天,就让我领教了他的哭功。同学说他要哭,不会读的拼音要哭,忘记作业要哭,根本没办法和他交流。于是,我对孩子进行了家访。原来,这个孩子是外地的,父母不在身边,是由奶奶带的,租房子在我们学校借读。陌生的地方、陌生的学校让他没有安全感,他要通过哭来发泄自己。得知情况后,我内心久久不能平静,像打翻了的五味瓶,于是,转化他的行动,在悄然进 Wu Shun-Xi (a pseudonym), male, six years old, a few days after admission, let me to teach his cry. Students say he wants to cry, not to read pinyin to cry, forget to work cry, there is no way to communicate with him. So, I made a home visit to my child. It turned out that this child is the field, parents are not around, with my grandmother, rent a house to borrow in our school. Strange place, strange school made him insecure, he wants to vent himself through crying. I learned that after a long time my heart can not be calm, like a spilled bottle of flavors, so, into his actions, quietly into