据调查 ,我国目前在家教上主要存在的误区有 :在儿童观和亲子观上 ,“听大人话的孩子 ,才是好孩子”、“孩子就应该服从大人”、“只要孩子学习好 ,家长再苦再累也值得” ;在教育观上 ,“家长的首要任务 ,就是协助学校抓好孩子的学习” ;在人才观上 ,“上大学才是孩子的出路” According to the survey, the main misunderstandings that exist in tutoring in our country at present are as follows: “Children who listen to adults and children are good children,” “Children should obey adults” in the view of children and parents and children. “As long as children learn well, parents In the view of education, ”the primary task of parents is to help schools grasp the children’s learning.“ On the talent view, ”going to college is the way out for children"