对我来说,奶奶是女孩子的守护神。在父亲的日常生活中,一直以来奶奶这个名词是缺失的。会识字,会读书后,我看过父亲写的一篇文章。在那篇文章里,父亲有些夸张地写道,在某个时刻,发现自己的作品,总有一个老人以爷爷的面目出现,而且从来不曾出现奶奶的身影。父亲说,当发现自己的秘密时,着实大吃一惊。过后一想,心里又释然了。在我们家的血脉中,父亲这一辈,从排行老大的大姑妈,到年龄最小的 For me, Grandma is the patron saint of girls. In my father’s daily life, the term grandmother has been missing. After I read English, I read an essay by my father. In that essay, Father wrote exaggeratedly that, at some point, one of his own works was found always in the form of grandpa, and her grandmother had never been seen. My father said that when you find yourself secret, really surprised. After a thought, my heart was relieved. In the blood of our family, my father’s generation, from the boss’s oldest aunt, to the youngest