色诺芬在《会饮篇》中认为,爱情的本质是在只追求求爱者的爱情也与考虑到被爱者快感的爱情之间的对立;还有把短暂的爱情转化为平等,互惠和持久的友谊的必要性。把灵魂的爱当做真正的爱,从友谊中寻求赋予一切关系以价值的原则。爱人的友谊能拯救性爱,保持它的力量。①虹影在《好儿女花》中用自己波折的生命线索完成了这道爱情本质的解析题。 Xenophon in the “drink chapter” that the essence of love is the pursuit of only the love of loved ones also take into account the love of the beloved pleasure between love; there is the short-term love into equality, reciprocity and The need for lasting friendship. Think of the love of the soul as true love and seek from friendship the principle of giving value to all relationships. Love of friendship can save sex and maintain its power. ① Hongying in the “good children spend” twists and turns of life with their own clues to complete the essence of this love problem analysis.