由于种种原因,有些做父母的常常听不到或听不进孩子们的心里话。为此,我们建议您读一读下面这两封孩子的信。它告诉我们:做父母的,要学会了解孩子,尊重孩子,善于鼓励孩子自立。对孩子不管不教,听之任之,固然有害;但管得过多过死,事事限制,处处干涉,则后果也往往不好。——编者 Due to various reasons, some parents often can not hear or hear the children’s heartfelt words. For this reason, we suggest that you read the letters of the two children below. It tells us: parents, we must learn to understand children, respect children, good at encouraging children to self-reliance. It does harm to children regardless of whether they are teaching or not listening to them. However, if they have excessive control over death, restriction on things and interference everywhere, the consequences are often not good. --editor