人与人、人与社会之间存在社会结合与社会对立两类关系。人的社会结合具有人性基础 ,具有社会历史必然性和价值合理性 ,具有一元性和多样性、稳定性和变动性、个人性和社会性、自愿性和强制性等特质。人的社会对立关系包括恶意、敌视、憎恨、疏远、反感、竞争、斗争、冲突等层面 ,它们具有积极和消极的双重属性。要改善人的社会关系 ,一方面必须极力推进人的社会结合 ,另一方面则必须调整人的社会对立关系 ,努力做到扬长避短 There are two types of relationship between social integration and social antagonism between people, people and society. The combination of human society has the foundation of human nature, with social historical necessity and value rationality, with the characteristics of unity and diversity, stability and change, personal and social, voluntary and mandatory. The antagonistic relations between people include malice, hostility, hatred, alienation, dislike, competition, struggle and conflict. They have both positive and negative attributes. In order to improve people’s social relations, we must make every effort to promote social cohesion on the one hand, and on the other hand, we must adjust the social antagonistic relations among people and try their best to avoid weaknesses