安德鲁·卡内基在20世纪之初，曾拥有资产4亿美元，这在当时竟超过了美国的国防预算。当有人问起他成功的秘诀时，他不无感慨地说：“有两种人绝不会成大器：一种是除非别人要他做，否则绝不会主动做事的人；另一种则是即使别人要他做，可也做不好事情的人；只有那些不需要别人 At the beginning of the 20th century, Andrew Carnegie once owned assets of 400 million U.S. dollars, which at the time actually exceeded the U.S. defense budget. When asked about the secret of his success, he said without hesitation: "There are two kinds of people who will never become masters: one is someone who will not do anything unless he or she wants him to do something. The other It is someone who does not do good things even if others want him to do it; only those who do not need others