男人害怕承诺,是因为他不是太爱那个女人,也是因为他太爱那个女人。他不是很爱她,所以他吝啬承诺。她说:“答应我,你永远不会爱上别人。”他不答应,因为他还没爱她爱到那个地步。为她而放弃其他机会,他还舍不得。他爱她没有深到把她当作生命里最重要的人。男人的承诺是珍贵的,他不会轻易付出。 Men are afraid of commitment because he does not love that woman too much, but also because he loves the woman too much. He did not love her so much he promised stingyly. She said: “Promise me, you will never fall in love with others. ” He did not agree, because he did not love her love to that point. He gave up other opportunities for her, he still reluctant. He loves her not deep enough to regard her as the most important person in her life. Men’s promises are precious, he will not easily pay.