我们遇到教育孩子的突发事件时,正确的做法是:先接纳现实,再想方设法解决问题,然后分割责任,总结经验教训,避免再犯相同的错误。那天,嫂子打电话跟我说:“我今天去接女儿放学,她让我把书包拿上,可能由于当时拿的东西多,我本以为拿了书包,谁曾想,回到家发现书 When we encounter unexpected incidents of educating our children, the correct course of action is to accept the reality first and then find ways to solve the problem. Then we should divide our responsibilities and sum up our experiences and lessons so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes. That day, sister-in-law called me and said: ”Today I went to pick up her daughter from school. She asked me to take the bag. Maybe because I had more things at that time, I thought I had a bag,