上次和两个年轻的爸爸聊天。A爸说,他希望孩子每次月考都考前3名,“这是我们家一直以来的传统,两个孩子都知道。不是前3名的话,他们就得不到奖励,还会被‘检讨’。”A爸这套“分数至上”理论,令旁边的B爸听了大惊。“每次都前3名?这样也太难了吧。”B爸说。 Last chat with two young dads. A dad said he wants his children to take three exams each month, “This is the tradition that our family has always had and both children know that if they are not the top three, they will not be rewarded and will be ’Review’. ”A dad this “ score first ”theory, so that next to the B-father was shocked. “Every time the top three? This is too hard. ” B said.